Monday, March 16, 2026

Rain and Tylenol

 Lots of tidbits today.

Have any of you seen Sebastian Maniscalco's stand-up routine? I have found you either love him or hate him. I love him. I relate to him. Then you add the over-exaggeration of his movements, which makes it funny to me.

Then on Saturday night, we were watching SNL. We saw that Harry Styles was hosting, and Rick and I said at the same time, oh crap.  We are not Harry Styles fans, but he proved us wrong, well, until he sang. Then we disliked him again.

I'll post it at the bottom if you know Sebastian, you'll know. 

** In other drama - we are not getting the new fridge now. It is working fine. 
How long will it last? We don't know yet, but after he fixed the fan/blower thingy, it seems to be working fine. Thingy is the proper term. 
This is the 2nd week, and it's been fine.

We have been using both the freezer and the fridge. This money was really a hardship for us, so we decided Sunday night to cancel it. This morning, Rick said that since we canceled it, it will die. I told him to shut his mouth. Don't put it out into the universe. Fingers crossed, this was all that was needed to help us out.

** I had planned to surprise my stepmom and sisters for my mom's birthday. I was going to take the train to DC and then drive the rest of the way north. I can drive 6 hrs but not 10. And honestly, I love the train.   
I was only going to arrive for the party and leave within 24-48 hrs.
But the fridge stopped me from going. Now, no fridge, so maybe I can make a trip up there. I saw all the pics, and it looks like a good time was had by all.

I never rode the train until I was given the territory for NYC.
I took Amtrak every week. Easy peasy. I'd get on the quiet car (no cell phones) and just sit and enjoy the ride, or open my laptop, plug it in at my seat, and work.
I got to NYC in 4 hrs. Penn Station was right under my office building, so it was convenient. I'd drop my bags off at the office, say hello to all, and then hit the streets to visit my clients. At the end of the day, I'd go back to the office, pick up my bag, and head to my hotel. Or join my boss for a cocktail. I loved my boss, Bruce, so I was always up for that.

No TSA, not standing in line forever, or taking off shoes/clothes to go through security. No crowding with 3 seats that only little people can fit into. Always on time. Just a more civilized way to travel if you ask me. Yes, I worked in the travel industry; my company was owned by an airline. But I stand by my train preference. I liked going to the dining car on my way home for a glass of wine or a T & T.  You'd meet the nicest people as well. Oh well, I'm going to get up north via train if it kills me.

**I watched a Billy Joel documentary on HBO Max. 
 I love me some Billy Joel. He is the soundtrack of my life. I had to laugh when everyone just kept saying he was so NY. 
Jackson Browne and other artists all said this.
Then, when they'd say why they felt this, I finally understood why everyone thinks I'm from NY. I get it now. But what people don't seem to realize is that people like Billy and me are everywhere, not just in NY.  

His first wife made him what he became, if you ask me, and you didn't. 
He had the talent, but she did it all. I found her to be a classy, straight-up, no-chaser kind of woman. She was on screen a great deal in Part I. She was just a classy older woman now. Which Rick said out loud, and I agreed 100%. 

She was smart, and she really looked after Billy and Billy's well being.
But don't be fooled, she didn't suffer fools nor the misogynistic shit thrown at her when she became his manager. Remember, this was the mid 70s.
Of all his 4 wives, I found her to be the most interesting. 
All very beautiful, and the last 3 are all decades younger than Billy.

While his life was interesting, the songs, oh, the songs. 
How they came to be, and so many were played here. I was in Billy Joel heaven! 

** We are having what I call a Southern Snow Day. It's rain. It's wind. It's a possibility of a tornado. Schools are closed. Thankfully, so far only rain.
I worked cleaning our 4-car garage and moving things around. It's a hot mess. But some things I left outside the garage door, I had to run out to fetch this morning, so they didn't blow away.

Rick is not working on his lathe, so all the dust and wood shavings are everywhere. While Rick napped, I went out there for 3 hrs and moved things, cleaned, and collapsed. 

I decided after taking copious amounts of Tylenol all night that I would finish the rest in small increments. This was a bit rough on my old back.
My mind says you've got this, Margaret, no big deal. 
My body says, "You're nuts, old woman, you can't do this all in one day!" 
I really thought I could too. But my shoulder was barking, and I found myself having to stop more than I wanted, so I just stopped altogether at the 3 hr mark.

Having 4 back surgeries makes things a bit difficult for me, but I did it. 
If I am being honest, my shoulder hurts far more. But I refuse a shoulder replacement. 
I wish I could get stem cells for this. But I'd have to go to Mexico, and that is out of the realm of possibility for this ole gal. 

It's all I've got, kids.
Raised by Guilt, Lasagna, and Mild Violence below -  (that will be on my headstone)



10 comments:

Kathy G said...

I have always wanted to take the train more, but Mid-America doesn't have dedicated tracks like the East Coast does. Instead, their trains run on shared freight tracks and Amtrak has to play second fiddle to the freight lines.

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

Ooh, not good. I took the Acela for work. Its their fast train. Yet it cant go as fast as it should because the rail tracks are old and cant handle it any faster. Sad that our country's transportation is so bad. I also wish there were quiet cars on planes😃 I hated hearing others life playing out on their phones!

Cruisin Paul said...

I love going on a train. I wonder how it must be going on those trains in Japan that go over 100 mph and more. I need to buy a new computer & everything else with it. Marylou's birthday is coming up. She'll be 78 I worry about her.

Cruisin Paul

Barbara said...

Ya got to learn to break up those chores into smaller sessions. Take a break for at least a song or two and you'll be ready to go back to it. Plus you'll be singing your favorite songs - like Billy Joel.

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

Is she ill Paul? I know you worry about her. As for trains I always wanted to take a VIA Rail trip across Canada. Slow or not. :-)

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

Barbara, I see that now. So todays rain kept me inside and doing this painful work. :-) I had my music blaring and It was far easier than yesterday. Rick said, "your mind is telling you that you can do it but don't listen, you're 70" But yet I think I can. I don't think 70 is that old but he tells me I'm delusional. Probably.

Grace said...

I'm one of the Maniscalco haters. But then I'm old and I still laugh myself sick at Pat Cooper's "Italian Wedding" - every word true, no exaggeration. I've been to more of my share of football weddings.

But I love trains! We went cross country by train back in 1950. I still remember parts of that trip vividly and you still have to change trains in Chicago. So much easier to hop on Amtrak rather than fly - and the train stations are always right downtown in whatever city you are going to. Love me a long train ride.

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

Agreed with the trains. As for Pat Cooper, I remember sitting in the back seat coming home from mass on Sunday and my parents listened to a station every Sunday that had on pat Cooper. They laughed like crazy. I have no idea of him, just remember the name. And of course my father telling us his real name was Pasquale Caputo. Who knows if thats even true. (I will google to see)That's all I know of him.😃

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

Ok I googled him. Ooh not a nice guy. But my dad was right about the name.

Julie H said...

I've only taken BART here. That is fun when it's not crowded. I'll have to watch the Billy Joel doc, I love a good documentary.