Tuesday, September 9, 2025

One A Day

 I need to accomplish one big thing a day I had decided.
Then I did said big thing and decided small things work too. πŸ˜€

I chose to do something where I did not need to wear my back brace.
I decided to clean our car out.  OMG. For only two people, it was awful.
Mulch was everywhere. We cleaned it up so many times, yet it was still there.
It stuck to the rug, and vacuuming only teased it.  
I went over one area so many times.  I swore I heard it say, Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah.  So there I was picking it up with my fingers.

In the backseat were 6, count 'em, 6 baseball hats of Rick's.  
2 bathing suits of Rick's. Rick's swim goggles, Rick's beach towel, and a pair of shorts and jeans, which he told he was taking to goodwill.

The odd items - a box of rubber gloves, two halo kits (I love these, but we only need one per car), two umbrellas, and a snow brush. One box of Kleenex, 110 receipts, and Rick's inhalers.

That is only a few things.
Other than the halo, nothing was mine.  NOTHING.
Because we only have one car now, we must share.  I get in and complain about his shit all the time. He laughs.  I seeth.

So I spent a good portion of my day cleaning the car.  Removing the back seat covers and washing them. (I used those fun good smelling beads that everyone says are bad for you in your laundry) The smell in the car is fabulous.  Not only is it clean, it smells clean.

I took out the floor mats, I armour all'd everything.  I do need some fabric cleaner for a few spots on the fabric.  Otherwise, it is complete.  Well, until Rick uses the car.  Why can't he blow his nose and put the Kleenex in the bag in the car?  I put a small garbage bag and attached it to the passenger seat so he could just put it in there easily. No, not gonna work. He throws it on the floor, in the small console, anywhere but in the garbage bag.

The car will remain nice until Wednesday.  Rick goes to the gym on Wednesday.  Who knows what will end up all over the car?  At least the pool is closed until spring now, so he won't need the swim trunks.  

Last night I was hurtin' a bit, but overall just fine. Today's job is finishing my doors. You see, when we moved in the crazy lady who lived here painted her door knobs silver.  I removed them all and replaced them with black and now I need to put on the hinges.  Years later, and the hinges are still sitting in the garage waiting for me.  So Tuesday it will be.  He's in the garage, so he won't be underfoot. 

In our last home of 21 years, we were the first residents.  
I liked moving into a blank slate.  
This home has had two.
They liked what I call bad colors. Like diaper poo yellow/brown. That room was painted first; it was so damn icky.  When we toured the house, Rick said, "Oh, this reminds me of my kid's diaper." The realtor not only agreed but said to Rick, I thought the same thing!
She loved the fluorescent colors of turquoise and lime green.  
And dark gray.  
I am not a fan of dark gray.  I did not understand that trend.

I'm trying like hell to move my body and not think about shit.  
Not working yet.
But it will damn it. It will. 

The weather is perfect right now, so if I don't do hinges, it will be something outside. Drinks at noon on the patio?  Nope, not drinking right now. I know who am I?  It's wine weather!  I need to get my head straight first. But if you wish to offer me drugs to forget my problems, I'll take 'em. 🀣

For those who don't know my grandmother would have yelled Puttana too.  
OMG, that made me laugh out loud.  It basically means Whore. 


hey better than RFK Jr.

22 comments:

Ami said...

You're a better person than I am. I can't even do one thing a day quite often.
My hubby messes up my car, too. Not *quite* as bad as yours, though. Holy cow!!

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

That's a nice way of putting it.

Kathy G said...

In my world, as long as I do at least one non-routine task I'm good for the day.

DB Stewart said...

I HATE cleaning my vehicle, but I DO appreciate the dopamine that comes with ticking boxes.

Barbara said...

I'm with Keith too. The car overhaul sounds like a lot of bending which I would have thought would kill your back but good for you for accomplishing it. I do like a clean car. I recently bought myself a membership to the drive through car wash and free hand vacuum service. It makes me so happy. I just can't get in and out to clean like I used to but that little bit makes a difference.

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

DB,apparently Rick does too

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

Your getting in and out comment is so true. I have an SUV so I used my step stool and climbed in the back. I sat there and cleaned and vacuumed. And yes, my back. I was hurting but I knew I couldn't do anything like that again two days in a row. So I took it easy next day.

bluzdude said...

My car is full of dog hair. Our dog has never, EVER, been in the car. It drives me crazy.

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

What? How? Well now thats a feat

Julie H said...

Lol my step dad's mom used that word a bit too! I kind of want to just pay someone to clean the inside of my car...

Abby said...

I think one big thing a day is a good idea. Your car cleanup sounds like quite a project!
I grew up with a lot of Italians, saw the joke right away!

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

I did too😁

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

My sister uttered it at a funeral when someone walked in and it made me laugh. Oooh, we got the evil eye from our dad from across the room.

It's.a.crazy.world said...

One thing per day is a good goal. I can't imagine cleaning out the car without your brace ~ makes my back hurt just hearing about it. We still have 2 cars, but I really want to cut it down to one. Really, really! But because I get out and do a lot more things than Romeo does, he would not be happy without the option of a car.

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

My goalπŸ˜€

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

Yes, that may have been a mistake but it also stops movements i needed. So I threw caution to the wind. Rick got in the car and told me it looked and smelled so good. I told him to keep it that way. He will for a week🀣

Anonymous said...

What is a halo kit? Olivia

Mr. Shife said...

The mulch saga had me laughing. I swear it multiplies when you’re not looking. Your positivity and determination really shine through, even if Rick’s stuff seems to have a life of its own! Wishing you luck with those hinges and hoping you get to enjoy some peaceful patio time.

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

Oliva, it is a small, size of an old vcr tape, that will jump your start your car so you don't have to have someone near by to help you. I love it. Used it twice. Once for me. Once for Rick. https://youtu.be/rZWvXuW1Cts

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

Ah, the mulch mocking me!! Have a great weekend Mr. Shife!

Anonymous said...

Thank you!

bluzdude said...

FWIW, the hair comes in on our shoes and clothes and transfers to the floor and seats. Like thin little parasites.