Friday, May 8, 2015

Dinner Guest

Have you ever been asked who you would like to have dinner with either living or dead?
For some reason, people ask me that a great deal of the time.
I assume it is because it is very telling. Or maybe not. 
I don't know why people always ask me that question.
To me what guest you would invite would tell me a bit of you. 
Is that the only reason it's asked? Or am I missing something?

The other day I was listening to an interview on Sirius while working on the dreaded spreadsheet. I felt I learned more about the interviewer by the questions posed and comments made than I learned about the interviewee. Ever hear that type of interview?
Oh, not the Diane Sawyer or Barbara Walters where it is all just titillation and nothing is learned or said, I mean a real interview.
For example, the question was asked would this celebrity type person ever consider dating or marrying a woman who was as successful or more successful than them? Then added, "Wouldn't that bother you?"
So to me that interviewer was saying it would bother him, so he asked this person if it would bother them. Hmm...more telling of the interviewer than the person being interviewed to me.

Yesterday evening I was asked the dreaded who would you like to have dinner with yet again.
I said, "You" because that is who I was having dinner with. But they wouldn't let me off the hook until I turned it on them. And then we discussed their choices. It is interesting, but I find it curious why I am always asked this question.  I know Rick isn't asked this all the time. I am asked a great deal of the time. Which got us talking about this later in the evening when alone.

So I am asking this to you all, my lovely blog readers, have you been asked this question more than once? If so why do people ask this do you think?
Who would you wish to have dinner with alive or dead? Yes, I'm asking because I will learn about you. C'mon now, type away. 

11 comments:

Ms. A said...

Can't recall ever being personally asked this question, but I've see those kind of questions elsewhere and heard them asked of others.

To kind of answer your question, at first I was thinking I'd love to have dinner with my Mom & Dad, but on second thought, that might make me miss them even more... so I don't know.

Ms. A said...

See=seen.

Mike said...

I can't say if anyone has ever asked me that. I've heard the question on TV many times before. Like you say, it's a dreaded question that I think is just a 'I don't know what to talk about' question.

Personally, I hate talking about anything while I'm eating.

But there's something for you to do in your spare time. Make a list of all the socially polite questions to ask people when you have nothing better to talk about.

Barbara said...

Nobody has ever asked me that. I think it is because you always have an opinion. But still strange to be asked multiple times.

April said...

I've never been asked.

I think I would want a dinner with my grandmother to find out about her adoption that we didn't know about.
And then it would be my best friends Derrick and Cynthia.

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

April, your Grandmother is a great guest, especially since she never shared an adoption. Isn't it funny the things people in that age found to be ashamed of? My family too. All silly now.

I hope your best friends are still alive and that would just be fun.

I'd have my mom as my number 1 guest. I have a step mom and while I love her - I so miss my own mom.
I have had a step mom longer than I had my own mom sadly.

Carma Sez said...

have those folks been watching the CBS early show on Sat am. - they always have a chef on and ask them at the end of the interview who they would have dinner with living or dead. The guy last weekend had a very well thought out answer....

I'd have it with Keith Morrison from Dateline. Since I am a Keith groupie.

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

Carma, that's funny. Keith huh? Well I hear he has a kickstarter campaign or some such funding campaign to get him back on the air and to do these shows again since he was fired. Did you back him?

Julie H said...

I don't think I've ever been asked that either. I'd choose my grandma because I miss her the most out of anyone.

flask said...

if the requirement is it has to be a famous person, i usually go for percy grainger and robert e. lee.

Margaret (Peggy or Peg too) said...

flask it has nothing to do with famous. Any person in the world living or dead you'd like to have dinner with. Most of mine are relatives who are dead.not much for famous folks